The
Experiment Cast:  |
| Top Row: Greg
(G), Andrea (G), Larry (G) Middle: Deo (G), Jennifer (S), Darlene (S) Bottom: Frank (S), Brandon (S), Kyla (S), Chris (G) (G)=Gay, (S)=Straight |
Screenings of The Experiment
If you'd like to show "Experiment: Gay and Straight" at your non-profit film festival or event, or to utilize it for educational purposes, you can obtain a VHS screener by e-mailing mark.saxenmeyer@foxchicago.com for more information. "The Experiment" has been previously shown at international film festivals in Anaheim (California), Auckland (New Zealand), Austin (Texas), Breckenridge (Colorado), Brussels (Belgium), Capetown (South Africa), Dallas (Texas), Denver (Colorado), Detroit (Michigan), Erie (Pennsylvania), Indianapolis (Indiana), Johannesburg (South Africa), Logan (Utah), Memphis (Tennessee), Mexico City, Mexico, Montreal (Canada), New Orleans (Louisiana), Orlando (Florida), Philadelphia (Pennsylvania), Rochester (New York), San Diego (California), San Francisco (California), Seattle (Washington), Sydney (Australia) and Washington D.C. |
The
Experiment House:  |
| The housemates taped their private confessions
in the "Disclosure Den" which was located in the garage of the home. There
was also a lower level to the home (not shown here) with laundry facilities,
a staff area (both Darlene Hill and Mark Saxenmeyer were on the premises
24 hours a day as well), and the interview room where each housemate was
questioned (by Mark or Darlene) each day about his/her thoughts. |
Your Hosts:  |
| Hosts Darlene
Hill and Mark
Saxenmeyer. To see Mark and Darlene's FOX News Chicago profiles, click on their names above. Darlene and Mark are also the founders and directors of a non-profit documentary production house called The Reporters Inc., specializing in cultural, historical, educational and current events. For more information about "Experiment: Gay and Straight", as well as past or upcoming projects, contact info@thereporters.org. |
One House
One Week
Ten Strangers
Five Gay
Five Straight
Living Together
Would YOU be able
to handle it?
The Experiment: Gay and Straight" is a 90-minute documentary which chronicles the lives of
ten Chicago-area strangers of varied ages, backgrounds, ethnicities and prejudices
during a week-long period in which they live together inside a Chicago home. Five
are gay, and five are straight; they agree to leave behind their jobs and their
families, and to cut themselves off entirely from the outside world as they work
toward one intended goal: to help bridge the gap and forge a better understanding
between America's gay and straight communities.
"REALITY TV" WITH A PURPOSE:
Simply put, we call our project "reality TV with a purpose" — a revolutionary
and unprecedented documentary "experiment".
"The Experiment: Gay and Straight" aims to combine compelling elements of popular
entertainment programs like "Survivor," "The Real World" and "Big Brother" with
serious and sometimes explosive issues involving sexuality, human rights and
discrimination.
The goal is to evoke open and honest discussions among those who watch this
project — conversations that seem to rarely take place among many gay
and straight Americans due to fear, ignorance, or simply because the issue
of sexuality is still taboo for many people.
HOW IT ALL BEGAN:
It all began when WFLD-TV (FOX News Chicago) reporters Mark Saxenmeyer and Darlene
Hill, as well as producer Kathleen Minnis, sequestered five gay and five straight
Chicago-area residents (all strangers to one another) in a three-bedroom, three-bathroom
house in the Roscoe Village neighborhood on the city's north side for seven straight
days in September 2002. The ten individuals (five male, five female, ranging in
age from 23 to 47) were selected from more than 800 applicants.
Inside the home, the housemates ate, slept, cooked, cleaned and socialized together;
they entered the arrangement fully aware that there would be no contact with the
outside world--no family, friends, phones, computers, newspapers, radio, television,
etc.
The participants were also given daily assignments, tasks, and challenges involving
sexuality. Topics addressed included gay marriage and parenting, harassment
and violence, coming out, growing up gay, homosexuality and religion, genetic
and environmental influences, whether or not being gay is a choice, whether
or not gays can be "changed", stereotypes, homophobia, HIV and AIDS, and gays'
impact on American culture.
In the evening, the group watched video presentations related to gay/straight
issues and each housemate was given a packet of articles at bed time to peruse
in preparation for the next day's discussions.
THE PROCESS:
The emotional and enlightening results were videotaped
24 hours a day by several cameras. The group was forced to continually confront
the issues because there was truly no place for them to run or hide.
The housemates were interviewed one-on-one by either Mark or Darlene every
day (in private) and they also recorded their more intimate thoughts alone
with a camcorder in our "Disclosure Den". (Those thoughts remained confidential
until the tapes were later reviewed by FOX when the week was over; portions
have been edited for inclusion in the final program.)
Though all arrived ready to defend their strong opinions, they were also willing
to change them if convinced otherwise.
PUTTING IT TOGETHER:
When the taping was completed, we left the house with 164 hours of digital beta
tapes and camcorder cassettes and began logging, examining, and molding them into
the program. It was an enormous, exhausting and almost overwhelming challenge.
In the end, we believe that much of what is expressed by these participants
often echoes the views of the general public--opinions and feelings many people
may voice privately but fear or resist saying aloud because of the potential
repercussions in our "politically correct" culture. In "The Experiment", our
housemates are refreshingly and sometimes stunningly honest. There is no tip-toeing
around any issue whatsoever.
THE IMPACT:
Community reaction to "The Experiment" after its original airing in November 2002
has been truly overwhelming. Educators from churches, schools and universities
throughout Chicago--and even across the nation — have expressed interest
in obtaining copies of the program to use in sexuality, psychology, conflict
resolution and sociology classes.
"The Experiment" is currently utilized by more than 30 regional chapters of PFLAG, Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, as a discussion and educational tool.
AWARDS:
"The Experiment: Gay and Straight" has won the following honors (as of June 2004):
*2004 Audience Award from the Dallas (Texas) OutTakes Film Festival (Best
Documentary)
*2004 Audience Award from the Orlando (Florida) PixieFlix Film Festival (Best Feature)
*2004 National Unity Award in Media from Lincoln University of Missouri (Outstanding Public Affairs/Social Issues Television Journalism)
*2004 National Hugo Award from the Chicago International Television Competition
(Outstanding Educational/Adult Audience Documentary)
*2004 Audience Award from the Sydney, Australia Gay and Lesbian Film Festival (Best Documentary)
*2004 National Telly Award (Outstanding TV or Cable Program)
*2004 National Gracie Allen Award from the American Women in Radio and Television
*2004 Jury Prize from the New Orleans Gay and Lesbian Film Festival
*2003 National Accolade Award from The Accolade Competition
*2003 National American Scene Award from the American Federation of Television and Radio Artists
*2003 National Siegenthaler Award from the National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association
*2003 "Best Feel-Good" and "Best Documentary" honors from the Indianapolis Gay and Lesbian Film Festival
*2003 Emmy Award from the Chicago/Midwest Chapter of the National Academy of Television Arts and Sciences
*2002 Peter Lisagor Award from the Chicago Chapter of the Society of Professional Journalists
*2002 Best News Series Award from the Illinois/Missouri Associated Press Broadcasters Association
THE TEN HOUSEMATES:
Name: AndreaSexuality: Lesbian Current Age: 25 City: Hanover Park Occupation: Looking to make a career change Marital/Relationship Status: Newly Single Children: None Religious Affiliation: None Favorite TV Shows & Movies: "Alias", "Girl Interrupted" and "The Incredible True Adventure Of Two Girls in Love" Hobbies & Interests: Music and dancing (my ultimate love) Why I wanted to participate in "The Experiment": I guess somewhere in the back of my head everyone hopes that society will change. I'm hoping that maybe this series can somehow make a difference, at least in the way people treat others. A part of me has always been kind of bitter towards people who aren't respectful or understanding towards others. I never really understand why some people are so quick to shut someone else out just because of who they are. So, I was hoping that by participating I could perhaps gain some more insight into how others think by engaging in conversations about all kinds of issues. Being cut off from the outside world: It was a very emotional trip. We didn't have the people that we rely on every day to be there. The ten of us only had each other. Then, having to talk practically non-stop about gay/straight issues it was important to be emotionally stable and strong every minute of every day. That was probably the hardest part. In the real world, when you have arguments with people you can always walk away. You couldn't walk away in that house. We faced probably every issue there was. I'm pretty sure we all cried the last day when we had our loved ones pick us up. My favorite housemate during the project: I can't really say I have a favorite housemate. But Chris and I got along really well, maybe because we were the babies of the house. We shared our stories and experiences together. I made a true friend. We were there for each other when we needed it the most My strengths & weaknesses: It's either a strength or a weakness, depending on how you look at it: I tell people straight out what I think. I'm not shy in any way and I speak up when I need to. Who I thought I would keep in touch with after the project ended: We met some great people in that house, but Chris and I got along really well. Who I actually have ended up staying in touch with: Sadly enough, I haven't really kept in touch with anyone except some hellos every once in a while. Though I intend on improving that. Who I haven't kept in touch with: For the obvious reasons. I have not and will not keep in touch with Kyla. And I never intend to. Ten months after the taping of "The Experiment": I still and will always feel very special and very lucky to have been a part of this life-changing experience even though as a result of it I witnessed ignorance at its finest. Regardless of that, I met some amazing people. We have had such an impact on people that have seen it, sometimes I just can't believe it. I think about it every day of my life. After seeing the project on the air: I can't say that I would change/add a thing. I think it's great. Everything about it just says soo much!! For viewers wishing to contact me with questions or comments, please e-mail me at: lilpixie022000@yahoo.com |
Hobbies & interests: Travel, digital photography,
Spanish literature, exotic food, math (yes, I'm serious) |
Name: DeoCurrent Age: 33 City: Chicago (northwest side) Occupation: Child Protection Supervisor Religious affiliation: None Sexuality: Lesbian Marital/relationship status: Married for almost five years to my wife (although our union is not legally recognized, much to my chagrin); we've been together for nearly ten years Children:I'm trying to have one now; my wife and i also raise her child from a previous relationship together Favorite TV shows & movies: "The Sopranos", "Six Feet Under", "Queer as Folk", and anything with Al Pacino. Favorite recording artists: Melissa, Melissa, and of course, Melissa (Etheridge). What kind of lesbian do you think I am? Hobbies: Motorcycling Why I wanted to participate in "The Experiment": At first it was just a whim, but after I was given the opportunity to accept, I felt it was important. Nothing like this has ever been done, to my knowledge, and I felt I would do my part to contribute. Living conditions during "The Experiment": The house was a bit small, but it worked for our needs. The whole "hot tub on top of the garage" thing was too cool. The trains that kept going by above us, though, were annoying as hell. You're in the middle of this deep conversation, but you have to pause sometimes every 30 seconds because of a passing train. The earplugs FOX gave us helped when we were sleeping. Also, I must have a bathroom like the one in the master bedroom.! Being "cut off" from the "outside world" for a week: Very weird. It was almost surreal--like you didn't know what day of the week it was sometimes. Not talking to my wife was the hardest part. Cameras taping me 24/7: Strangely, you get used to it. I thought it would be harder to deal with, but it became like nothing. It was fun messing with the audio guy; we'd whisper into our clip-on microphones, "Oh Travis, you are so hot!!!" Favorite housemates during taping: Jennifer and Frank. They are so damn funny. My strengths and weaknesses: Strengths: My wife. Weaknesses: 273 Who I thought I'd keep in touch with after taping: Greg. Who I currently keep in touch with: I've kept in touch with most of the housemates through e-mail. i've talked to Greg on the phone. He's just so cute! Who I haven't kept in touch with: I really haven't kept in touch with Kyla, Brandon or Frank. They never respond to the e-mails. For viewers who might find it hard to believe "The Experiment" was a life-changing experience: You have no idea what it's like unless you try it. It's very overwhelming to discuss and debate issues 24/7. Even during the "down time" we were still discussing and debating. Then after a heated argument, you have to cook dinner next to the person you were just yelling at. On top of that, you have no outlet. In the real world, after a bad day of work, for example, you can come home and talk about it with your spouse or partner. You get a chance to unwind. There was none of that during "The Experiment." I was surprised at how emotional I became when I saw my wife at the end of the show. This project really did take a toll on my emotions. Ten months after we left the house: I still remember it like it was yesterday. It is something that I will never forget and I would do it over again. It was a very memorable experience and i am grateful that i was a part of it. After seeing the project on the air: I wish so much more could have been aired. i think that little bits and pieces can never really communicate the experience that we shared, the emotions, the growth, the honesty, and the rawness of it all. It was truly an amazing experience. It was surreal to see myself on television, but I think we all did a good job in showing who we really are. For viewers interested in e-mailing me with questions or comments: foxexperimentdeo@hotmail.com |
Name: GregAge: 37 City:Chicago Occupation: HIV/AIDS Prevention & Youth Services Counselor Religious affiliation: Believer Sexuality: Gay Marital/relationship status: Happily Partnered Children: None TV, movie & recording artist favorites: "Dancer in the Dark", "Absolutely Fabulous", Prince, Tori Amos, Bjork Hobbies & interests: Poetry, dancing, cooking (mexican food), deep conversations collecting Scooby Doo memorabilia Why I wanted to participate in "The Experiment": I have been through a lot in my life concerning my own personal struggles with being gay and really coming into my own. This is an ongoing journey that I'm not sure will end until my life's passing. I felt that all the things that have happened in my life weren't meant to be bottled up, but maybe shared with others. There are a lot of people who need inspiration, advice, or a mirror held up to them to see they are not alone. I have a voice; I need to use it. Being cut off from the outside world for a week: Well, it was pretty hard. I mean, a lot of people have tried to minimize it by saying 'oh, it was only for a week--that's nothing!' but you'd be surprised how difficult it actually is when you're completely removed from family, friends, phones, computers, radio, tv, music, going where you want, getting what you want when you may need something, and living with people you don't know. Not to mention sex! It got a little easier as we got to know each other but still... When I left the house I was in "society shock." TV cameras taping me 24/7: The first day was strange but then after that I kind of forgot about them--except when I needed a moment alone and then it was annoying. Favorite housemate at the time of taping: Hmmmm, that's a hard one. Well, Darlene and I became very close. She was like a mother figure for me, as well as a friend. And I really needed that. At the same time, Deo, Larry, Jennifer, Andrea and I felt immediately meshed from the start. I felt more comfortable with the others only later. Viewers of "The Experiment" won't likely see this on TV: I'd have to say Brandon's hiccups that wouldn't go away the entire week. Who I've Actually Kept In Touch With: I would have to say I have kept in touch with Darlene the most, but Andrea, Jennifer, Deo, Larry and Chris as well. Darlene and I bonded quite a bit in the house — she is a wonderful person, a good friend, and I love her laugh. I chat with Chris online, I talk to Andrea and Jennifer on and off. I have called Deo a few times too and touched base. We all have lives and sometimes I am not real good with keeping in touch but I do try. I think we all try. I kept in touch with every one because they are really great pople and they have made efforts with me to do the same. I think we all formed a bond. I single out Darlene just because she's really a great person to talk to, be honest and real with. I wish we all had more time. I think now that summer is here we will make more of an effort to connect. I do occassionally run into my former housemates when we talk to groups, colleges and attend an event. Who I Haven't Kept In Touch With: I haven't kept in touch with Brandon, Kyla and Frank. I haven't kept in touch with Frank because he is always on the go and seems to be a very busy boy. I would talk to him more if he had more time and wasn't so far away now. (in Kentucky). I see him online once in a while and we chat a bit. I've sent an e-mail to Brandon to see how he's doing. I really have no idea why we don't keep in touch — it's just that some people click and some don't. I have also sent an email to Kyla but have never received a response. Again, sometimes people don't click. I have no ill feelings with them it's just the way it is. I have to say though if there was more effort on both parts I would do the same. Ten Months After The Taping Of "The Experiment": I have no regrets whatsoever about doing this. I am glad I did. People have the power to change their stereotypes and perceptions they may have of gay people and come to an understanding. It doesn't mean they'll always agree but it gives me hope that some have it in them to try and see through other people's eyes. I realized from watching myself I am stronger than I thought, when I am articulating a message or a point about something I need to express. Sometimes I doubt myself when others don't. After the newscast version of "The Experiment" aired my mother and I did start having some dialogue and our relationship is much better now. I never meant to hurt her with the things I said but it is the truth I live. I didn't realize what an impact it was going to have on people. I received e-mails from all over thanking us for doing this. I was overwhelmed with the positive responses and grateful for the chance to contribute in ways I may never know. I am doing pretty good healthwise. I have my moments with other physical problems related to having HIV — some things just ARE and you learn to cope. But, good news: my viral load is down and my T-cells are up so I'm not complaining. It's funny when people recognize you on the street and come up and express thanks. That's a really great feeling. I am just grateful that Mark Saxenmeyer and Darlene Hill stuck their necks out to get "The Experiment" made. It had a really great purpose — not just any old reality show . I was so amazingly surprised at how well-done it was, especially the documentary version. I made friends that I will never forget. I get so tongue-tied about this because there just was so much that went on inside me. I didn't think I could go through with it. I think this will help a lot of people gain some understanding. Maybe homophobia, like racism, may never totally vanish but these are steps to try and help people see we are all human beings — straight or gay. After seing the project on the air: When I viewed the documentary version I was really impressed. I mean we had so many complaints the first time it aired. People were disappointed in their e-mails that it was so short and wanted to see more and expressed that FOX news cut it up too much. I thought it was great in length the second time around but I still could have seen more — it brought back a lot of memories for me. It made "The Experiment" come together and filled in some of the gaps people had questions about. Additional Comments: In closing, I loved doing this!!! And I wouldn't change a thing about making the choice to be involved. Many people thought being confined in a house for seven days should have been no big deal with ten strangers. It IS when you have no outside contact and you are being taped and watched even in the most emotional moments that you don't want anyone to see. These moments were intense. Later, after we came to terms with each other and it was time to leave, I was sad. We had bonded to a degree even if our opinions didn't. We all woke up in the morning and saw each other when people usually don't want to be seen...Eeek! We sang in the shower, cooked, acted like goofs, joked, laughed, got angry, debated, had fun etc. So much happened I will never forget. When you see people like that in there "realness", walls can fall and you get to who each other is inside. I am glad that my journey in life may helped someone else in theirs. I have been abused, dealt with affliction, spiritual struggles, my own pain and strife — basically alot of ups and downs in life. I hope people see we gay people are not that different and if we are — that that is a good thing. It doesn't have to be bad. Maybe in some small way people will be able to relate and find a piece of themselves in me, in us, all 10 — and rise above whatever it may be that prevents them from accepting people for who and what they are. For viewers wishing to contact me via e-mail with questions or comments: underdog_greg@hotmail.com |
Name: BrandonSexuality: Straight Current Age: 44 City: Chicago Heights Marital/relationship status: Divorced Children: Two (Brandon Jr., age 12; Jalena, age 10) Occupation: High school counselor Religious Affiliation: Baptist (I've attended Salem Baptist Church in Chicago for 10 years.) Why I wanted to participate in "The Experiment:" I wanted to get some answers for my children about their mother (my ex-wife) who has since come out as a lesbian since our divorce. Favorite TV shows & movies: "Fat Albert & the Cosby Kids" (my favorite show of all time), "A Raisin in the Sun", "It's a Wonderful LIfe" Favorite musical artists: Marvin Gaye, The Isley Brothers, The Temptations, Luther Vandross (I LOVE love songs and classic rhythm and blues.) Cameras taping me 24/7: They really didn't bother me unless I went to the washroom and worried about whether I had turned my clip-on microphone off or not. Favorite housemate during taping: Kyla. I say this because she is fine. Just kidding. We seemed to have shared a lot of the same views. Strengths and weaknesses: My main weakness would probably be my stubbornness. My main strength is my ability to communicate with people (especially listening). Who I ended up staying in touch with: I really have not done well in the area of keeping in constant contact with the other residents. However, I have spoken with Kyla, and somewhat with Darlene. There really isn't a certain reason why I have not done a better job in keeping in touch. Hopefully, I'll do better. After seeing the edited version of "The Experiment": I don't think the newscast version last fall did an adequate job of showing how I kept emphasizing that I was not judging the gay residents. I was just expressing my beliefs as a strong Christian man. I also kept emphasizing that homosexuality is not the only sexual act that I believe to be a sin. If i were to have sex with a woman who is not my wife, I also believe that to be a sin. I love my beliefs and am very comfortable with them. I also believe that God is forgiving and wants the best for ALL OF US. Ten months after the taping of "The Experiment": I would still participate in "The Experiment" if I had to do it all over again. I believe that in my own personal life I have better learned how to look at the individual, not his or her sexual orientation. For viewers wishing to contact me: brandestiny@aol.com |
Name: DarleneSexuality: Straight Age: 48 City: Tinley Park Occupation: Chiropractor Assistant Marital status/relationship: Recently Divorced Children: Two Boys (one is 26 and gay; one is 23 and straight) Religious Affiliation: None Favorite TV shows: "Big Brother", "Survivor", "Will & Grace", "Sex and the City", and all awards shows Favorite musical artists: Kenny Chesney, Faith Hill, Shania Twain, Trace Adkins Why I wanted to participate in "The Experiment": To learn more about homosexuality and to possibly help other parents who are struggling to accept a gay child Living conditions during "The Experiment": I thought the arrangements and conditions were excellent. There were no separations between male and female, gay and straight. We all lived, slept, cooked, ate, cleaned and completed projects and challenges together just as a regular family would. Being "cut off" from the outside world: I enjoyed it, although I did miss my granddaughter. Being cut off like that made all of us learn and get to know each other pretty well, and much more quickly. Favorite Housemate at the time of taping: All of them, in their own individual way. I guess you could say that I bonded more with Greg and learned the most from him. And Chris reminded me so much of--and is very much like--my own son. Who I Thought I'd Keep in touch with: I thought I would stay in touch with each and every one of them because they were like my extended family. I loved them all! Who I have kept in touch with: I, for the most part have kept in touch with most everyone. More so with Greg then anyone. Greg and I seemed to be the closest, and have shared a bond with one another. I love him dearly and we are good friends. Who I haven't kept in touch with: Kyla and Brandon. Not of my doing either. It has been their choice and their decision. Just wished I knew WHY! For viewers who might find it difficult to believe that "The Experiment" was a life-altering experience: All I can say is for them to try it! And if they don't get emotional and worked up like we all did, then they're not human! When you watch the series, just look at what happens to me. For someone who usually never cries, I couldn't believe it myself! Ten months after the taping of "The Experiment:" I thought "the Experiment" was AWESOME! I am so thrilled that i was able to be a part of it all. I just wished it could have been even longer and even more in-depth than it was. And I really hope it will soon be seen nationwide rather then just locally. It was something that was very much needed and hopefully people will get a better understanding of gay/straight issues from it. Additional comments: For me, "The Experiment" was the greatest and most rewarding experience of my life. I've learned so much from it, as well as few new thing about myself. I've become a much stronger person. And I have seven new wonderful friends. Yes, it was was very emotional, intense and emotionally draining. Would I do it again? YES! To ask Darlene a question about her participation in "The Experiment", e-mail her at dep46us@yahoo.comm |
Name: FrankSexuality: Straight Current Age: 26 City: Louisville, Kentucky (moved for an acting internship) Occupation: Actor/waiter Religious affiliation: Catholic Marital/relationship status: Single (now separated from the mother of my son) Children: A one-year-old boy (Ryan Patrick) Favorite TV shows and movies: "Cheers", "The Sopranos", "Tombstone" Favorite musical artists: Sublime, Nirvana, Led Zeppelin, Billy Joel, Eric Clapton, Eminem Hobbies and interests: Sports and traveling Why I wanted to participate in "The Experiment": I felt I could benefit from being more exposed to gay people. I needed to open my mind more and try to be more accepting of human beings as a whole. I also had some issues I wanted gay people to hear from a straight person. Living conditions inside "The Experiment" home: The house was cool although the bedrooms were small which made them a bit uncomfortable. Overall, though, it was like a giant camp of two different Indian tribes. Sometimes it was all easy going and some times it wasn't easy going at all. Being cut off from the "outside world" for a week: It was the longest week of my life. Minutes went by like hours and I thought at first I was going to lose my mind and walk out. But patience was a true necessity. I missed my family and friends so much. TV cameras taping me 24/7: I would say that it was a bit uncomfortable at times (especially in the morning). But after a day or so they seemed to just disappear. I didn't pay much attention to them. Favorite housemate at the time of taping: Brandon, because we had the whole straight male sexuality thing going for us the whole time. It was easier to find common ground in humor/conversations with him. Strengths and weaknesses: My strengths are my quick wit, easy going manner, and individuality. My weaknesses are my temper, my stubbornness, and my stereotypes of class. Who I thought I'd stay in touch with: Probably Chris because we talked via e-mail a lot right after the project ended pretty often and he was a cool guy just to say "what's up?" to. It might also have been because he's on-line all the time too. Who I've actually kept in touch with: Greg here and there and Darlene quite a bit. I think most everyone would agree that there is a life-lasting bond we have with each other. So, all in all, when some of us have gotten together for mini-reunions or speaking engagements it seems as if we've never been apart. I have a true friendship with everyone involved. Who I haven't kept in touch with: Haven't heard from Kyla at all, but that's not too surprising. For people who might find it hard to believe "The Experiment" was a life-altering experience: Everyone in Chicago (in America!) needs to go through something like this. If they did, they'd truly understand why this affected us all so deeply. It was non-stop emotion. I swear I wouldn't believe it if i was on the outside, but people need to watch this series with an open mind and take our word for it that it really made a difference in our lives. Ten months after the taping of "The Experiment": I have lived by my words that my learning experience has not come over night. And there is not a day that goes by that I do not think about the experience. For myself, my upbringing, and my background this project had a lot to offer to me. So thus far, nearly a year since I applied to take part in "The Experiment", it has made me into a smarter, more open minded, and better person period. After seeing the project on the air: I wish that more people across the nation could see it. I have seen in bits and pieces of what it has done for the public and all of us who participated. It's been remarkable. Additional comments: At certain points, a couple people thought I might be gay. That was pretty damn funny. I got a huge kick out of it. Contact Information: spyder6253@aol.com |
Name: JenniferSexuality: Straight Age: 31 City: Chicago (Lakeview neighborhood) Occupation: Advertising Religious Affiliation: Catholic Sexuality: Straight Marital/relationship status: Dating same guy for almost a decade (show me the ring!) Children: None Favorite TV shows & movies: "Iron Chef", "Antiques Road Show," "The Pet Psychic", "Will & Grace", "The Sopranos", "The Price is Right", "Jaws", "The Shawshank Redemption", "When Harry Met Sally" "Gone With the Wind" (my ULTIMATE favorite movie!!) Favorite musical artists: Tori Amos, No Doubt, Garth Brooks Hobbies and interests: I am a gym rat--I'm always working out. I am also a HUGE animal lover/proponent of animal rights. People that wear real fur are sickos that deserve to have their skin peeled off. Living conditions during "The Experiment": Tight. Crowded. There were too few bathrooms and the beds were too close together. I also always felt like there was never enough food. And most annoying of all, Brandon ALWAYS sat on the ONE chair in the living room during our discussions! I never got it! He hogged it and I always had to squeeze onto one of the couches. Favorite housemates at the time of taping: I liked my roommates in my room (Greg, Deo, Brandon). But this is hard--I had different reasons for liking most everyone. Honestly, I didn't really have a favorite. Being "cut off" from the "outside world" for a week: It felt like eternity. I thought it wouldn't, but it did! Seeing the same faces 24/7 for a week is trying--I craved some time alone. By day three it felt like five years had passed. When you are shut off from everything that is familiar and forced to live, eat, sleep and talk with complete strangers--time ticks more slowly. I noticed small hassles/disagreements turned into huge discussions and arguments. Strengths and weaknesses: I think I am extremely direct and have no problem "telling it like it is." I also like to ask a lot of questions to quench my curiosity. Still, I hate conflict and usually go out of my way to avoid it. Who I'll keep in touch with: I really don't know. Keeping in touch is not my strongest area. Who I've ended up keeping in touch with: Almost daily: Darlene, Greg, Chris; Occasionally: Larry, Andrea, Frank, Deo. I truly feel like these people are my extended family. I spent more cumulative time with these people over the course of a week during "The Experiment" than time spent with my best friends over the course of a year! You don't just say 'ok, see ya' after such an intense experience! Who I haven't kept in touch with: Brandon and Kyla. 'Ok, see ya'! Just kidding! I would like to hear from Brandon. He was actually one of my favorite housemates. He is an all-around good guy and fantastic father! Ten months after the taping of "The Experiment": I believe "The Experiment" is one of the most important things i have done in my 31 years! I find myself noticing and a lot more sensitive to 'gay bashing' comments. Before "The Experiment" I would not notice as much and just laugh it off. But now i grow irritated and start lecturing. I can't believe how much homophobia is out there! I also notice and try to contribute to AIDS benefits/fundraisers. It takes on a whole new meaning when you actually know someone with AIDS! After seeing "The Experiment" myself, in its edited, televised version: I wish viewers knew that i do indeed know exactly how the HIV virus is spread. I knew before "The Experiment." But for some reason it didn't prevent my behavior. Not everything we do in life is rational! How many people line the toilet seats in public bathrooms? What are you going to get from a public toilet? Exactly! Additional comments: I am very proud of "The Experiment." I hope it resonates with a lot of viewers! From what I see out there, a lot of people need to see it so they can learn and apply it to their lives and relationships.This was something I will never, ever forget. I wish everyone could go through it! For viewers wishing to contact me with questions or comments, please e-mail me at: foxexperimentjennifer@hotmail.com |
Name: LarrySexuality: Gay Age: 32 City: Chicago (Uptown neighborhood) Occupation: Patient Services Rep at an ophthalmology office Marital relationship/status: Committed relationship (seven years) Children: None Religious Affiliation: Baptized Lutheran, now non-practicing Favorite TV shows and movies: "The Simpsons", "Alias", "FarScape", "The Avengers" (original 1961-1969 series), "Arsenic and Old Lace". "Some Like It Hot", "South Park: The Movie", "Seven" Favorite Musical Artists: Eurythmics, anything re-mixed by Thunderpuss *Hobbies & Interests: comic book collecting, logic puzzles, working out, cooking Why I wanted to participate in "The Experiment:" I believed in the premise. I think that sitting down and talking about misconceptions, ignorance, stereotypes, etc. (on both sides) can help to pen a person's mind. Also, I wanted to be a different face from what the media typically portrays as a homosexual. I'm not the thin, cut, white guy or the drag queen. And I don't call any of my male friends "girl." Living conditions during "The Experiment:" Everything was remarkably uneventful. Ten people shared three bedrooms and tow and a half bathrooms. Each bedroom had a mix of men and women, straight and gay. We all showered and made it downstairs to begin our formal discussions on time in the morning. There weren't any fights over time or space and it all just worked out. Being "cut off" from the outside world: It wasn't too different from camping or just taking a kind of sabbatical from your regular life. It was difficult being away from my man that long but that was about it. Cameras taping me 24/7: After the first day, the cameras became part of the background; you just ignored them for the most part. It was actually more strange when I returned home after the week was over and I kept thinking I shouldn't walk around naked because in the back of my mind the cameras were still there. Favorite housemate at the time of taping: Frank. He's a good guy who could help lighten the mood when emotions ran too high. My strengths and weaknesses: My strengths include my ability to think before I open my mouth, my honesty, and my ability to think logically. My weaknesses include the fact that I don't like or deal well with emotions. What viewers won't see on TV: One day Frank and Deo and I were sitting on the back porch after a long and hotly debated conversation inside with the rest of the group about whether or not homosexuality was a "choice." We started talking about other things, to lighten the mood, and Frank told us that he believed in the possibility of alien life. I looked at Deo incredulously and then asked Frank, "Are you telling me that you believe in aliens in outer space but you have five gay people right here in front of you telling you their sexuality is NOT a "choice" and you can't believe THAT?" Who I thought I'd stay in touch with after taping: A few of the housemates. Who I've actually stayed in touch with: I have kept in touch with almost everyone through e-mails, instant messages and phone calls. We've even done some speaking engagements and have become a pretty close-knit group. Who I haven't stayed in touch with: Brandon and Kyla. 'Nuff said For viewers who might find it hard to believe that "The Experiment" was a life-altering experience: I'd just have to say that we started formal group discussions every morning at 9 a.m. and often didn't finish the day until 11 p.m. at night with more gay/straight-related articles to read in preparation for the next day's discussion subjects. Even as we went to bed we were still thinking about the topics we had debated all day. As if that's not stressful enough, day after day, there was no real "off switch". We were constantly (by design) around the same nine other people and couldn't leave the confines of the house or yard. Even our "breaks" weren't relaxing because someone was always worked up about something. The books that were provided all had to deal with gay/straight issues so we couldn't "veg out" on those; and the TV was never turned on unless we were instructed to watch a video related to sexuality. To put it simply, think "Spanish Inquisition" for seven days Not pretty. Very Intense. After seeing the project on the air: The documentary version of "The Experiment" is much more in-depth and filled in many "holes" or unanswered questions from the newscast series last fall. The only thing I find uncomfortable to watch, and wish was edited down, was my outburst at the end. It's very unnerving watching myself breakdown on camera. For viewers interested in e-mailing me with comments or questions: ExperimentLarry@aol.com |
Name: KylaSexuality: (I am soooo) Straight (Go, straight people!) Age: 29 City: Chicago (South Shore neighborhood) Occupation: Child Welfare Supervisor Religious Affiliation: Christian, born and raised in the Baptist church (Amen!) Relationship/Marital Status: Committed Relationship (I live with my boyfriend of two years.) Children: None (yet) Favorite TV shows & movies: "Soul Food," "Girlfriends", "The Sopranos", "ER", and "Malcolm X". (How Denzel Washington did not win the Oscar for that performance is beyond me.) Favorite musical artists: Sade, Musiq, Norman Brown,Wayman Tisdale, India Arie, Anita Baker, Take 6, Minnie Ripperton, Talib Kweli, Mos Def, Biggie, Tupac and anybody who made old school house music. Hobbies & interests: I make jewelry and write poetry. I love to sing and dance as well Why I wanted to participate in "The Experiment": I felt that I could clearly articulate the thoughts of my community. I thought my presence would show people that you can disagree with someone's sexual orientation and lifestyle, but still honor and respect them as a person. Boy, was I wrong!!! Living conditions in "The Experiment" home: The house was beautiful and I loved the layout. The living conditions were decent, but some participants were not as tidy around the house as I would have liked. I know now that if I had grown up with 10 people in my house, I would have been miserable because I really like to have quiet time. The most annoying thing was definitely the train; it irritated me so. I got up one morning at 6 a.m. and mopped the kitchen and living room floors while everyone was still asleep. I couldn't take it anymore--they were filthy! Oh, and I wore flip flops while I showered every morning (because Lord knows what was in that tub!) Being cut-off from the outside world: Having no contact with anyone was cool for about three days. Thereafter, it was down hill and I was ready to go home. It made me realize how important some people are in my life and question if I was taking them for granted. Being videotaped 24/7: Having the TV cameras around all the time got on my nerves. We all have quirky things that we do that no one else knows, which of course may end up on national tv now and forever commemorated on video tape. It further supports the fact that I don't want to be famous. Losing your anonymity is indeed a bigger price than I am willing to pay. Favorite housemate at the time of taping: My favorite, of course, was and is Brandon. You go, boy!!!! I appreciated his candor, chivalry and self-expression. I am so thankful he was there because it made my experience much better. He has the most wonderful children and has done such an awesome job raising them. I applaud him for that. Brandon is a gentleman and a gentle man. Any man that can stand up and profess his love for God, is all good to me. My strengths and weaknesses: I hate this question. I have a strong personality with leadership qualities. I am articulate and charming, which has allowed me to make great strides in my life. As for weaknesses, well, I never thought of myself as stubborn but after "The Experiment", I added it to my list. Who I'll stay in touch with: Probably Brandon. Who I ended up staying in touch with: No response. Ten months after the taping of "The Experiment": No response. After seeing the edited, televised version of "The Experiment": No response. Additional comments: I just hope that there was something I said or did during "The Experiment" that will make a positive difference in someone's life. God bless. Be blessed. For viewers wishing to e-mail me with questions or comments: No response. |
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